Be it Not

i cannot hate those people for what they have done to me...

for as soon as i begin to hate,
i become just like them...


PATHETIC, BITTER and UNLOVED

Pretentions

sometimes,

you just have to PRETEND that you're happy...

just to stop EVERYONE from asking you what the hell happened

Dilemmas

there are two dilemmas that rattle the human skull:

how do you get rid of someone who won't go..

..and how do you hang on to someone who won't stay?

Chances

continue your day with a smile
and enjoy each passing moment

because,
you know everything that might happen today
may never happen again tomorrow

Value

if they don't know how to value you,

Let them go...

it's much better to lose them,

than to feel stupid all the time

To Live or Not

sometimes,
when people decide to leave you for good,
you have to let them.
no matter how much you don't want them to.

there are some things that are far beyond our control.
and even if you have the strength to fight for them,
you have to accept the cold, harsh truth...

that the people you can't live without can live without you.

Learn How

What will you do when you are starting to see the things that hurt you?


Learn to close
your eyes!ü

Heart Print

Whoever
touches
our
lives...

leaves
HEARTPRINTS

of
love,
friendship,
& joy...
thank you




for




being




a









beautiful
HEARTPRINT..

Consider it as a Fact

You should think that even how
a person loves
you,

consider the fact that you're not the only one who could make him/her

happy..

That Someone

' sometimes we need to let go of special person we used to keep just for ourselves.



mainly because they also need to find that someone, that you can't be..

Tongue and Heart

TONGUES MAY DENY

BUT

THE HEART DOES NOT LIE

Lesson for Girls

Lesson to be learned by girls:

"IF a man wants you,
nothing can keep him away.
IF he doesn't want you,
nothing can make him stay."

Our Choices

things happen because of the choices we make,
there may be regrets but blaming is not an option.

we are where we are because we brought ourselves there.

we get happy.
we get sad.
but most importantly...

WE LEARN

Love without Pain is Just a Game

never doubt someone's love for you.

if you found some imperfection,
let it be.

if you survived the pain,
the happiness is satisfying.

never find a perfect love --

because LOVE WITHOUT PAIN IS JUST A GAME.

I beg to Disagree

In love,


is it wrong to expect anything in return from our loved ones?

--- i beg to disagree.

We are only humans!
We can't control ourselves to expect.

Especially if we know that we are giving too much..

...too much of what they DON'T deserve.

Happiness for Everyone

LIFE is better when you're happy.

but life is at your best when other people are happy just because of you.

Which One are You?

a FAITHFUL person doesn't have time to get attracted with others.
his/her attention is exclusively for the only one he/she loves.

a LOYAL person still gets attracted to others,
appreciates beauty,
flirt at times,
but at the end of the day knows where his/her heart belongs.


SO? WHICH ONE ARE YOU?

Bitterness

BITTERNESS is not a totally negative thing.

it's just a way of showing others that in life,
there's such a thing as...


"I STILL LOVE HIM BUT I DON'T WANT TO CARE ANYMORE"

Complex Perceptions

Anyone can have feelings, that is easy.
but to have feelings with the right person,
to the right degree,
at the right time,
for the right purpose,
and in the right way.

this is not easy.

Criticism

avoid criticizing the person you see in front of you...

because you might also be an irritation to the millions of eyes behind you.

Life Perceptions

Life is hard because we see the obstacles, not the goals.

Life is painful because we see the tears, not the smiles.

People are rejected because we see their faults, not their righteous deeds.

People are weak because we see their failures, not their success.

It is the way we look at things that makes this world worthwhile.
To live in, not plainly on our judgement

Wealth. Power. Fame.

if WEALTH is the secret to happiness,
then the rich should be dancing in the street.
however, only poor kids do that.

if POWER ensures security,
then officials should walk unguarded.
but those who live simply, sleep soundly.

if BEAUTY and FAME bring ideal relationships,
then celebrities should have the best marriages.

Live Simply. Walk Humbly. Love Genuinely.

Lighten Up

don't place you mistakes on your head,
it can weigh you down and crash you.

instead,
place it under you feet
and use it as a platform to view your horizons

Secrets

there are two types of secrets...

"those we keep from others,
and those we hide from ourselves"

An Arrow

an arrow can be shot only by dragging it back.

so when life is dragging you back with difficulties,
it means that it's going to launch you into something better.

Thought to Ponder

There are things we regret,
Words we wish had gone unsaid,
Beginnings that had bitter endings,
Chances we threw away,
Roads we should have never taken,
Signs we didn’t see,
Hearts we hurt needlessly,
And wounds we wish could mend.

The past can’t be rewritten,
But it can make you stronger.

Be thankful for every change,
For every break in your heart,
For every scar,

Pages were turned,
Bridges were burned,

But you…

HAD LEARNED

Main Things in Friendship

Great friendship is about two main things:

First,
Is to find out the similarities.

Second,
Is to respect the differences.

News Flash

It takes your enemy and your friend working together to hurt you to the heart.

The enemy to slander you,

And the friend to get the news to you.

Rationale About Human Beings

Human beings are funny.

They long to be with people they love,
But refuse to admit openly.

Some are afraid to show even the slightest sign of affection because of fear.
Fear that their feeling may not be recognized or even worse, returned.

But one thing about human beings puzzles me the most is their conscious effort to be remotely connected with their object of affection,

Even if it kills them slowly within.

Happiness in Pain

It’d not always right to stay in pain when you know you’ve already had too much.

And it isn’t always wrong to be happy when you know it’s about time that you deserve to be.

Test About One's Patience

A sweet truth…

“when God knows you’re ready for the responsibility of commitment, he’ll reveal the right person under the right circumstances”

wait patiently…

don’t waste your time searching and wishing…

grow and be ready

and you’ll see…

God will give you a love story far better than you could ever dream of

Stupidity Exists

Never feel empty when the person you love turns you down…
Because not all people are smart enough to appreciate you.

That is why stupidity exists.

Mirror

Do you know what’s hard after making other people happy?

"It’s when they don’t realize that you also need someone to do the same"

Unconscious Thought

Sometimes,
all it takes
is one special person
to help us look inside ourselves
and
find
a whole different person
that we never knew existed.

If Things work out

If everything between the two of you are getting special and sweeter,
It also gets confusing to know if everything is going to be true.

Life Problems

If you run away from your problem, it breaks you.
If you face it, you break it.

Not everything that is faced can be changed,
But nothing can be changed until it’s faced.

Numb

Nobody is this world in numb.

Everyone can feel pain,
It’s just that some are really good when it comes to pretending.

Move On

Don’t be discouraged every time people steps down on you.
Be flattered instead.

Huckabee said:

“when people keeps bumping you from the rear,
it only proves that you’re still in front of them.”

Total Lies

The average person tells 4 lies a day or 1460 a year
for a total of 88,000 by age of 60.

And the most common lie is:

“I’m fine”

Why(s)

Why do we choose to hurt ourselves than to hurt others?

Why do we lie when we know that the only one being fooled is ourselves?

Why do we pretend that no matter how many people express such admiration, you would still want to be with the person who doesn’t only see you as someone to be praised, but someone who despite your flaws accepts you for who you are.

Fewer Words

I have this theory that the more important and intimate the emotion,
The fewer words are required to express it.

For instance,
In dating:

Will you go out with me? (6 words)

I think I care for you (5 words)

You matter to me (4 words)

I love you (3 words)

Marry me (2 words)


So what’s left? What’s the most important and intimate words you can ever say to somebody?

It’s . . .

GOODBYE

Not a Superhuman Complex

Love is not a superhuman complex.

You do not love someone because you think he/she needs rescuing,
You love someone because you think you’ve found someone extraordinary and you wouldn’t want to exchange it for anything else in the world

Sharing Your Life

when you share yourself with others,
life begins to find its meaning.

the time you touch the lives of others
is the moment you truly live you purpose.

Caring

you'll know if the person really cares
when he ask what's wrong
and when you tell him nothing,
he stays there,
waiting..

for the real reason.

Be Sensitive

some things may be nothing for us,
yet it could mean the world for others.

similarly,
some things may be easy for us,
yet so painful for others.
realize this
and know why at times
forgiveness comes hard.

LESSON:
make the most care for other people's feelings
because sorry is not always an effective remedy.

treasure

never leave the person who understands you more than anyone else,

someone you can talk to about everything
and,
someone who will stand next to you --
even with your unwanted attitudes.

treasure the one who accepts every bit of you.

10 Ways to Love People

1. Listen without Interrupting [Proverbs 18]

2. Speak without accusing [James 1:19]

3. Give without Sparing [Prov 21:26]

4. Pray without Ceasing [Colossians 1:9]

5. Answer without Arguing [Prov 17:1]

6. Share without Pretending [Ephesians 4:15]

7. Enjoy without complaint [Philippians 2:14]

8. Trust without wavering [Corinthians 13:7]

9. Forgive without Punishing [Colossians 3:13]

10. Promise without Forgetting [Prov 13:12]

Grow Up

When we were little,
we used to think that when we were grown-up
we would no longer be vulnerable.

But to grow up is to accept vulnerability.
To be alive is to be vulnerable.

To Compare Yourself

"Never compare yourself with anyone in this world,

if you do so..

then you are insulting yourself."

Biggest Forms of Flattery

one of the biggest forms of flattery
is knowing that just by being your normal, wonderful self..

you make someone..

fall in love.ü

Loving Someone

Loving someone is like losing your own pride.
it may be for a good reason,
it may be not.

but what's important is that you're willing to give up something as great as pride for someone you really love...

Kindness

Kindness is an inner desire that makes us do good things to others even if we don't get anything in return.

It's done with sincerity & done from the heart.
You become worthy not for who you are,
not even for what you have,
but of what others have become because of you.

Can't Resist Falling For

sometimes, being kind isn't enough to win someone's heart..

we're too into finding
that perfect someone, perfect beauty, intelligence & personality..
then after the long search,

we find ourselves falling helplessly
with someone who's not even half of our ideal person..

we fail to realize that no matter how much standards we set,
we'd always end up not with someone we want
but with someone we can't resist falling for...

Almost

sometimes,

the heroism in love
is not only seen in the way you fought for it..

but in the way you surrendered it
even though it was supposed to be perfect..

Out of Control

though you can CLOSE your EYES
from the THINGS you DON'T WANT to SEE..

you can NEVER CLOSE your HEART
from the THINGS you DON'T WANT to FEEL..

To Fight For

Not everything you have stays forever.
But there are things you would be glad to fight for,
just so you can have them longer.

Learn to Say Goodbye

It's never good to pin your life on someone else.

You must realize that you were born alone and that you are going to die alone..

No matter how much someone loves you, he/she won't die with you.

One big life lesson to engrave onto your mind is this:

LEARN TO SAY GOODBYE TO SOMEONE WHO HAS ALREADY SAID GOODBYE TO YOU...

Waiting

waiting is the most important thing
that you can do for the one you Love. .

but it proved me one thing,

as it goes
it can also..

..change your mind

Life Without Love

Its hard to just forget someone
whom you already consider a part of your life,
it's like taking out a letter off your name.

Its not YOU anymore.

Being A Friend

Sometimes, being a friend means mastering the art of timing..

There is a time for silence, a time to let go and allow friends to hurt themselves into their own destiny..

And, a time to prepare to pick up the pieces when it's all over..

Love and Pain

sometimes, you can say
"i moved on"

but deep inside,
you know you're stranded.

well, you want to know how long you'll feel that way?

because, as long as you feel the love,
there will always be pain.

Thoughts

women always worry
about the things
that men forget..

and

men always worry
about the things
women remember..

To Change Back

we always want things to change..

but once they do,

we wonder why things can't go back to the way they were..

Life's Handy Kit

Life's Handy Kit:

CHOPSTICK

"to remind YOU to pick out the good qualities in others"

RUBBER BAND

"to remind U to be flexible,
things might not always go the way YOU want it"

BAND AID

"to remind YOU to heal hurt feelings, yours & others"

PENCIL

"to remind YOU to list your blessings everyday"

ERASER

"to remind YOU that everyone makes mistakes & it's okay"

CHEWING GUM

"to remind YOU to stick with GOD
& YOU can accomplish anything!

Friends than Lovers

sometimes,
two people decide to be

"JUST FRIENDS"

even if they have feelings for each other.

wonder why?


i suppose it's not the Love that's so hard to sustain,

but the c0mmitment that complicates everything.

Wake Up to Reality

its hard t0 open your eyes
if your dreams are t0o sweet..


but sometimes
it's a must to wake up
because it's the only reas0nble way
to see reality..

Being a Grown-Up

the most important thing being a grown-up
is to realize that you're not there to please anyone.

rather, you're there to do something good.

something that makes you happy.

something that could define YOU

Greatest Weakness

the greatest weakness of most humans
is their hesitancy to tell others
how much they love them
while they're alive

Patience

be patient toward all that is
unsolved in your heart
and try to love the question themselves.

do not seek the answers,
which cannot be given now;
rather live the questions.

all good things come to those who wait.

PATIENCE is the companion of wisdom.
it is bitter, but its fruit is sweet.

Opinions

opinions are like wrist watches,
everyone's watch shows
a different time from others.


but everyone believes that
their time is correct.

Stay Inlove

there wiil be times
when you will
love someone so much
that even
the simplest gesture
is enough to convince you
and make you stay

...inlove...

Willing To Wait

there are things that you don't want to think of,
but you can't even forget it.

there are things that you don't want to continue,
but you are afraid to end it.

it's just like
you don't want to expect anything,
but
you are still willing to wait.

Subconsciousness

when you love someone,
thinking about then is just like breathing



---> you do it without thinking and you do it all the time

To Realize

it's amazing to realize
that even if
the world around us changes so fast,
our hearts still long for
the same friends
to share memories
with
the same old person to love.

Better People

it's hard when you miss someone so much
yet you can't so a thing about it
because having that space between the two of you
is the only way to make both of you...

BETTER PEOPLE

Chess Queen

broken hearted girls are like the QUEENS
in the game of chess,

no matter how difficult the game is...

the QUEEN always have the
DEADLIEST MOVES


the sad part is...

she would even SACRIFICE herself
just to let the king LIVE...

Nothing's Broken

when you get hurt,
you don't need someone to heal the scar
and
take away the pain.

what you need
is someone who
will make you realize
that nothing is really broken.

Finding the Unexpected

sometimes,
we put too much passion on
the biggest dreams and priorities in life
that we fail to love
the smallest pleasures from simple things...

we search so much for the right choices,

for the right paths to walk through,

for the right time and for the right reasons...

but life isn't about
searching for
the right things
that can't be found...

it is about
letting the unexpected happen
and finding things
you never searched for...

Answers to Questions

sometimes,

we know the answers to our questions
yet we still ask

why?

it's because,
the answer we know
are the answers we can't bear to ADMIT

Friendship from Necessity

we do not arrive at friendship from necessity.

you aren't friends because
you have a need for that person
or that person for you,

but it's a great pleasure that
sharing your

character,
company,
ideas,
and life with each other

is one of the memorable moments
in one's life

Being In Love

being in love is definitely a hard thing

but having it

leaves a feeling,

being so much happy

You Have Learned

There are things we regret:

words we wish had gone unsaid,

beginnings that had bitter endings,

chances we threw away,

roads we should have never taken.

Signs we did not see,

hearts we hurt needlessly,

and wounds we wish we could mend.

the past can't be rewritten,
but it can make you stronger.

be thankful for every change,
for every heartbreak,
for every scar...

Pages were turned,
bridges were burned,
but you...

HAVE LEARNED

Feel and Experience

sometimes, it is wonderful to feel & experience things like:

unsolicited happiness,

unconditional love,

uncontrolled laughter,

unworthy action

and

unscripted conversations
from unselfish friends who
deeply understand one another...

Nothing to hide,
Nothing to worry,
Nothing to be ashamed of,

just doing pure and plain
nonsense things but
still means everything

6 Advices

1. Close to us is not family, but death.

2. Farthest from us is not the moon or stars, but the time passed

3. Biggest is not the mountain or sun, but our lust or desire.

4. Heaviest weight is not the elephant, but responsibility.

5. Lightest is neither the wind nor feathers, but praying.

6. Sharpest is neither the knife or sword, but our tongue.

Trust

never cease praying

never quit trusting

never stop loving

Trust God's plan

Trust God's wisdom

Trust God's timing

Trust God for Everything

Not So Bad Being Single

a heart doesn't need company to be happy...

it can smile in its solitude &
be thankful for the peace inside

it's not so bad being single

Not to Have Back

sometimes,
no matter how much
you miss someone,

it is still wiser
not to have that person
back again

Person's Absence

what is the meaning of a person's absence?

is it a test on how long will you hang on?

or...

is it the answer of somebody
who doesn't want & need you anymore?

Shouldn't Be Sorry

you should not be sorry about love...

rather,

it should make you wonder...

that if you were once happy with the wrong one,

how much more when the right one comes..

A Kiss

a kiss
is a lovely trick
designed by nature

to stop speech
when words
become superfluous.

Stars

it's sad when two people see the same star,
and yet wish two different things...

SHE wait for him,
HE waits for another,

and so,
they never meet.

One

one song can spark a moment...

one idea can change a world...

one step can start a journey and


a prayer can change even the impossible one...

Essence of Being

one thing we've got to learn
is that no person is better
than the other.

some are blessed with
knowledge,

some with
beauty,

some with
great wealth,

some with
strength, and

some with
a unique gift from God
that they have yet to find.

the essence of being is not your rank
or greatness but being who God made you to be.

Gift Of Grace

for every heart that listens,
there is a voice that speaks.

there is a door that opens,
to every soul that seeks.

to those who ask,
the promise is that they shall receive.

and the gift of grace is given
to all those who believe...

When

when a song ends,
you could just repeat it
every time you like.

when the movie ends,
you can just wait after trailers
to start again.

when the rain ends,
sure it'll come back soon.

but when special moments have gone,
you don't even know if you can rewind it,
repeat it,
or hope for it
to happen again.

so enjoy every second of it
while it lasts...

Sad Reality

here's a sad reality:

you can forget a person
you love so much
no matter how much
you try to do it.

it's impossible
unless

you learn
to love somebody else

Blessings

you're blessed if you have someone ---

who speaks the truth
when others tell you
what you want to hear.

who thinks you're great
but doesn't always think you're right.

who respects you need to be alone
yet understands that you fear being lonely.

who's willing to share your highest hopes,
your biggest dreams,
or the smallest corner of your world.

who waits when
you run ahead or lag behind.

who stands with
and outstretched hand
each time you fall.

someone who will never turn back
and give up on you
despite all

Greatest Torture

probably,
the greatest torture
you could ever do
to your heart,

is to let
somebody go...

at the time
you love
that person most.

Friendship

Boys use the word
"friendship" to start love.

Girls use the word
"friendship" to end love.

same word but different attitude

Having Mistakes

having mistakes doesn't mean
that you're a bad person...

it's a part of life.

you don't have to focus
on the wrong things you've done...

because what's important is
you've realized what is right

Ifs

if you love what you're doing,
you'll never get bored.


same with...


if you still love that person,
you'll never get tired.

Misplaced Things

why do misplaced things appear when not needed?

and unseen when you wanted it the most?

simply because...

you aren't aware of its value
unless you're about to make use of it

It's Proper When...

Letting go is proper when
you have already shown how much
you loved a person
and still nothing happened...

it is proper when you know in
your heart that you did your part
& even half of his part but all
remained unreciprocated.

letting go is not really giving up
on how you feel about a certain person,
it is sometimes just choosing
to love that person from afar.

just from afar,
to save yourself
from further hurts,

.AND TO SAVE YOUR VERY OWN WORTH.

Courage

if it takes great courage to
stand & fight for something

sometimes it takes even greater courage
to just walk away and
leave things behind.

Forever

Forever is a promise,
and you can't afford to lie

Take Chance

Learn how to take the chance,
and know when to take it,
and why take it

Miracle Friend

having a million of friends is not a miracle..

the miracle is,

to have a friend
who will stand by you,

when million are against you..

It's all in the Mind'

do you know that the heart has no pain receptors?

so the next time someone breaks your heart,
move on.

the pain you feel is just an illusion..

a temporary psychological disturbacnce that you have to overcome..

in short...

IT''S ALL IN THE MIND

Often Mistakes

people often make a mistake of loving the wrong person
and letting go of the right one

if you happen to be one of them,
don't be sad

because love will always lead you
back to the person rightfully meant for you

Paradox In Life

everybody wants to live a long life,
but nobody wants to get old.

everybody wants to go to heaven,
but nobody wants to die.

and nobody seems to realize
that on our life's journey no one has ever reached the finish line

Love One

Love 1, NOT 2.
but love the one who loves you too.

Love 3, NOT 4.
but love the one who loves you more.

Love NOT 5, NOT 6.
but love the one who really sticks.

Love NOT 7, NOT 8.
but love the one who's willing to wait.

Love NOT 9, NOT 10.
but love the one who will love you until the end.

Bitterness

"bitterness"

doesn't mean you hate falling in love..

it's just being wise and careful
so that your heart won't be used and torn apart again

Let Go

sometimes,
it is easier to let the one you love go..

not knowing the real reason,

because it would surely hurt more,
when you find it unreasonable.

Importance if Things

the importance of something is seen when it's done

the worth of someone is realized when they're gone

because it would always be a mystery
that we realize the essence when it's already a memory...

Part of the Reason

i think part of the reasons why we hold onto something so tight for so long
is because we fear that something so great will never happen twice

Most people Believe

most people believe
that "i love you"
is the best thing you can say to anybody...

i have learned that "i love you too"
has a greater impact on the human heart.

anybody can get an 'i love you'

but fewer get an 'i love you too'

Unwanted Apologies

it hurts to know
that the people who hurt you
never realize the gravity of what they've done...


...and when they apologize,
they don't even know what they're being sorry for...

Never be Assured

never be assured
that love is enough
to make someone stay
or come back to you..

because when the pain strikes the heart,
love fades no matter how great it was..

Yet You still choose

it's funny how other people are willing to do lots of brave things just for you...

...yet you still choose someone
who can't even offer you half of what other could.

Your Worth

even if someone is too numb to feel you..

or too insensitive to notice you..

you still choose to stay..

because beyond what others see in that person..

you feel that tiny chance that maybe..

if you hold a little bit tighter,
he/she will learn to appreciate your worth..

Sound and Silence

the loud voice of a man
really shocks and threatens a woman..

but..

the silence of a woman
tremendously shakes the consciousness of a man

Learning Things

everyone has his/her own way of learning things

Afraid to Fall

We are afraid to fall in love for we are afraid to get hurt.

but when we finally fall,
do you know what's the first thing we're afraid of?

it's losing "THE ONE"
we fell in love with...

Which Road?

destiny is like the crossroads..

can't be changed..
and is out of our control..

but God gives us the freewill to choose which path are we going to take..

this is the challenge of life..
to make CHOICES...

which road will you take?
be careful for there;s no turning back

Words to Live by

Words to Live by:

just say what you mean, and mean what you say.
don't expect someone to read your mind
and don't play with heads or hearts.

don't tell half-truths
and expect trust when the full truth comes out.

half-truths are no better than lies.

don't be cold to someone you care about,
INDIFFERENCE hurts more than ANGRY WORDS.
they say actions speak louder than words
but sometimes,
it's better to have both

Words

a GOODBYE can hurt..

but not as much as an "i Love you" that can't be proven

Feelings

Never ever play with other people's feelings..

the world holds millions of things you can play with..

a person's emotion is definitely not one of them.

Life's Road

our life is sometimes like a rough road to walk on,
where everything seems wrong and hard..

but let's not give up and lose hope,

let's go on and persevere.

when we think we're alone,
we'll find God walking alongside us.

He'll surely not leave us.

Just One

a thousand pairs of eyes may speak of admiration over you
and it can make you smile or be flattered..

but at the end of the day,

no matter how many people express such adoration,

you'd still want to be with the person
who doesn't only see you as someone to be praised,

but someone who despite your flaws,
still embraces and kisses you,

and even shares your laughter and pains..

6 billion people and sometimes,
all you need is just ONE.

Friends

sometimes,
friends are separated by priorities,
by distance,
by differences
and pride..

but no matter how far and different people are,
there's always a friend you can lean on whom you have known from the very start

Greatest Companion

keep in mind that GOD is your greatest companion
because no matter how imperfect you are,
and no matter what happens in your life,

GOD will still be there to give you the greatest love you've always wanted.

Guy and Girl Facts

Facts:

Girls have innumerable crushes
but their hearts only belong to ONE guy

and...

Guys may be flirting all day but before they go to sleep,
they always think about the girl they truly care about

Being Single

BEFORE:

being single means that nobody wants you

NOW:

it means you're cute, smart and you're just taking you're time
deciding how you want your life to be..

...and who you want to spend it with...

Quitter

being a QUITTER doesn't mean you're a LOSER,

every time you quit doesn't mean you're GIVING UP...

it only means
that you have to let go
of what you think is
ENOUGH

Heroism in Love

sometimes,
the heroism in love is not only seen in the way you fought for it..

but the way you surrendered it even though it was suppose to be perfect

Benefits of Friendship

BENEFITS OF FRIENDSHIP

you can have general meetings about
other people's clumsiness and bloopers;

you can share secrets that
for unknown reasons you can't keep on your own;

you'll have
easy, ready and accessible loan services;

you don't have to pretend you're a cow
because they know you're a pig;

you can cry
mouth open and tongue out with them;

you can render
"pa-text" service;

you can share a meal
for the price of one;

if you fall, they'll laugh at you
but will lend you a hand and laugh at you again..

that's FRIENDSHIP

Through Pain

sometimes,

we must be hurt in order to grow.

we must fail in order to know.

we must lose in order to gain.

why?

because some lessons are best learned through pain

Be Satisfied

to love someone doesn't mean to commit with that person...

sometimes, you just have to be satisfied
with whatever connection you have
with that special someone

Derived Happiness

Happiness can be derived
only when you can make other people happy
despite of your own loneliness, sacrifices and self-denial

Tears

perhaps our eyes need to be washed by our tears once in a while...

so that we can see life with a clearer view again..

Loving Forever

you can never make someone love you forever..

all you can do is be someone who can be loved..

and the rest is up to the person to realize your worth..

Cheating and Faithfulness Borderline

there's always a possibility that a person in a relationship can get attracted to another,

it's human nature.

it's not wrong.

but that's why you are in a commitment,

you discipline yourself,

you may get attracted to numerous prospects
and it's ok,
as long as you don't nurse the feeling and want to do something about it...

borderline between cheating and faithfulness,

recognize the reality that you already have the person that can give you more than what you get for the cheap thrills of attraction

Sorry

do you know what's wrong when a loved one says "sorry"?

--> it gives him/her the wrong idea that any mistake can be solved by a single word. and they'll commit the same mistake all over again.

but

do you know what right when a friend says he/she is "sorry"?

--> it connotes that a single word may not solve everything but is an effort to always make up with you whose really worth keeping

Happiness

Happiness Achieved is MATERIALISTIC

Happiness felt is DIVINE

Personality for Love?

Don't sacrifice your personality for LOVE

Successful Relations

Understanding and Good Communication
is the key to every successful relationship

Dreams

Dreams are the bridge between the physical world,
accessible through our senses and sacred realm,
built at subconsciousness

Love is...

Love is the most powerful of all,
can be your weapon to achieve your happiness
or can also ruin you totally

Consequence of Choices

Nobody ever did, or ever will, escape the consequences of his choices

Forever isn't Enough

never love someone you know you can't have for a long time,
and never wish forever,
when you know --- forever is not enough to make that person love you

Strongest feeling

Love is the strongest feeling that exists on earth

Expecting or Assuming

they say EXPECTING is one way of hurting yourself,
but,

what if you have the reason to EXPECT?

"EXPECTING doesn't hurt you,
ASSUMING does"

Imagination

there is no limitation for IMAGINATION

Hardest to Compete With

In love,
who is the hardest to compete with?

3rd party?

flirts?

good lookings?

hearthrobs?

NO.

but the love BEFORE you

Do it with Heart

Whatever you do,
do it with your heart

Letting Go

in some relations,

"Letting Go"

is the most difficult
and the last thing you desire

Memory

Sometimes
it takes just a moment
to create a memory of a lifetime

Stress

Stress is as much physical as psychological

Life and Dreams

a life without dreams is harder to live

Love can Wait

there is a saying "love can wait"



....people just can't

Suppression?

it's really hard to miss someone,
but it's even harder when all you can do is...

to divert your attention in other things...

until the feeling is gone...

Someone Special

when you love someone and admit it,
there's no turning back.

it's a line that will forever stay embedded deep within your heart.
because once you loved that someone,
it doesn't fade away.

even if you wish to prevent it,
deep inside ---

you know he or she will always be SPECIAL

The One You Love

the moment you find someone that makes your heart beat,
stop the search and take the risk.

remember that the world is a big place
that if you lose the one you love . . .

you have to search the whole world again . . .

Chances

If everybody deserves a second chance,

would it mean
we also have the freedom
to waste the first one?

Hope of Sin

a peaceful and gentle time
is
the hope of sin

Light and Dark

Better light a candle
than curse the darkness

Success

Success is the ability to go from failure to failure without losing your enthusiasm

Meant to Be

there's no such thing as "meant to be"

for when two people fall in love..

..they are meant

but sometimes,
it's meant,

only for a moment

Don't Expect

Part of the fantasy of every betrayed person is that one day,
the person who hurt you will come back & answer all your questions,
& apologize for hurting you.

but the thing is...
they won't.

They will die a Liar & will feel good about themselves.
that's how selfish they are.
the can't give you closure,
you have to find it yourself.
you get angry with them.
then you get over them.

Bless them in your mind and have peace with yourself.
when or if that person comes back,
you can say hi and goodbye in the same sentence.

Great to Know

It's great when you find someone
who knows all your mistakes and differences

yet..

still finds you absolutely amazing..

Once you lied

Once you lied,
there's already a rule
on the mind of the person whom you lied to..

that is to:

never believe how believable your words are..
even if they are not lies anymore..

When One Moves On

the best feeling from a person who's trying to move on,
is when no matter how many times you heard that person's name,

it wouldn't bother you anymore
unlike before..

Leads to Forgetting

don't make a special person miss you too much.

try to keep in touch.

because missing that person often times lead to forgetting

3 Kinds of Friendship

A wise man once said that every person should maintain at least 3 kinds of friendships:

1. Friends of your own age whom you can talk over your problems, plans & goals with confidence.

2. Friends older than you to whom you can confide & be assured of wise counsel.

3. Friends younger than you whom you can share your life experiences.

It is not only in being helped
but in helping others that you can find release
from your inner tensions.

Nurses say

Nurses say that

Fixing someone's broken heart
is much more like treating a sickness..

no matter how hard you try..

..if you're not the right medicine,
you can never cure the pain.

Let them Go

if they don't know how to value you,

LET THEM GO

it's much better to lose them..

..than to feel stupid all the time

Faith in God's Work

Faith teaches us to believe
no matter what situation were having right now..

hold on

be strong

don't give up..

GOD works in ways we cannot see

Life's Good?

God has made life so good
that even if we don't exactly get what we want,

we realize that
what He has given us
is actually the best for us

Saying Sorry

don't say sorry to someone you left yet loved..

instead..

..say sorry to someone you stayed with
yet do not felt what you promised.

It Starts in the Mind

Change always starts in your mind.

the way you think determines the way you feel,
and the way you feel influences the way you act

Invariation

MEN love women with the hope they'll NEVER change

WOMEN love men with hope that THEY'LL change

invariably,
they are both disappointed

It's another Story

You can erase someone from your mind..

but

getting them out of your heart is another story

Your TIme is Your Life

the best expression of love is TIME.

the more time you give to something,
the more you reveal its importance and value to you.

when you give someone your time,

YOU are giving them a portion of your life
that you'll never get back.

Your Time Is Your Life.

that's why the greatest gift you can give someone
is your time
because,
you only have a set amount of it.

Life Choices

Life is a matter of choice

you can be a doctor
who saves lives.

a lawyer
who defends lives.

a soldier
who protects lives.

OR

just BE YOURSELF . . .

and decide you own life

Limitations Limitless

Limitations live only in our mind
but
if we use our imagination,
the Possibilities become Limitless

Belief

Success or Failure begins with belief

The Best

the people who mean something in your life are not rated "the best",
don't have the most money, haven't won the greatest prizes

They are the once who care about you, take care of you, those who, no matter what, stay close by

Think about it for a moment.
Life is very short!
and you, in which list are you?

Deep down inside us, we all know that the most important thing in life is much more than winning for ourselves.

The most important thing in this life is to help other to win. even if that means slowing down and changing our own race.

Facts About

applause dies away
trophies gather dust
winners are soon forgotten

Attractiveness or Personality

Having someone attractive
is nothing without
a personality to go with it.

But they let it Go

You must feel sorry for those who broke your heart,

because one day,

they will just wake up and realize..

they had the world,
but they let it go.

Ordinary to Special

Never take someone for granted,
maybe by now they are doing ordinary things again and again.
and sometimes, it doesn't make sense.

but,
you'll never know the importance of that person
until they choose to leave.

and you realize how badly you missed that person
and all the "non-sense" thing he/she used to do.

for he/she is the only one
who can turn "ordinary"
to something "special"

Reality and Cruelty

Reality is much more Cruelier
have a glimpse of FAITH!

if you cannot hear the TRUTH,
no one can tell you . . .

Real Purpose of Love

the real purpose of love
is not getting what we want
but unselfishly giving what we have.

We do not put a price
on the love that we give
because we should give it unselfishly w/out compensation,

we do not love someone
because of what he or she is,
but because of what we are
wen we are w/ that person.

Love should not just about
receiving something n return,

it should be about loving & just loving
because it makes us happy.. .

Sad but True

when you meet a person that
you feel like he's/she's treating you somewhat special..

don't fall for that feeling right away
because it's much painful
wen u start craving for that feeling
not knowing that it's just his/her nature..

so sad
but its true
sometimes
we fall
in love
through
someone's
goodness..

Think About This

Think ab0ut this...

You cannot find
the right person
to love you

because...

it is your love
who can make
that person
right for YOU..

Holding Anger

Holding anger is a poison..
it eats you from inside..

we think that hating
is a weapon that
attacks the person
who harmed us..

but hatred is a curved blade..

and the harm
we do,


we do to
ourselves..

Just Relax

Whenever your stressed and about to give up

remember ..

STRESSED is just DESSERTS spelled backwards ..

So its just..

A piece of cake! Just relax!

Good Apology

A good apology has 3 parts:

1) I'm sorry.

2) It was my fault.

3) How do I make it right?

A lot of people usually miss the 3rd part.

LOVE spells TIME

Love takes time.

It needs a history of giving and receiving.

Love is the joy that makes people smile.

Love is easy to feel but so hard to explain,
easy to get but so hard to let go,

easy to spell but so hard to define.

Love is created,
not by words
but by feelings,

not by humans
but by hearts.

Love is not how you forget but how you forgive,
not how you listen but how you understand,

and most of all,
not what you see but what you feel.

a Drink

"nothing beats a H0T climate like having a C0ld drink with a friend..



but then again..




having a H0T friend at hand during C0ld climates after a few drinks..

d0esnt s0und bad either.."

Robert Solomon

I LOVE YOU:

A warning.
An apology.
An interruption.
A plea for attention.
An objection.
An excuse.
A justification.
A reminder.
A trap. A blessing.
A disguise.
A vacuum.
A revelation.
A way of saying nothing.
A way of summarizing everything.
A surrender.
An opening. An end.

No Rewinds

Don't miss the chances that life is giving u to spend with people u love..



Remember..

when it comes to life,

there are no rewinds

Life: A Battle

Life is a battle of wills, not a battle of skills.

So more often than not,
the man who wins is

the man who thinks he can

Memories don't die

One day,

we're all going to leave for the places we're meant to be.

And sometimes,
that means miles and miles of distance.

But as long as
we always keep the memories of the times we all spent together,
the bonds we form can never ever be broken.
For what you don't kill in your heart can never die

One Fatal Error Can

"it takes a thousand sweet efforts to build a great relationship,

yet one fatal error can destroy everything you have started.."

Will You?

getting even with an enemy was never a good move..





why?




ask this to yourself:

"would you level yourself down with a loser?"

Being Yourself

its N0T about being who everyone else WANTS you to be.




its about being yourself,




and finding someone who loves every bit of it.

Apologizing

Apologizing
does not mean..



you are wrong and the other is right..


it only means,



that you value the relationship much more than personal ego...

Happiest Friends

The world's happiest friends never have the same characters...




They just have the best understanding of their differences...

To Balance

Life is like riding a bicycle.

you have to balance everything.

and in order to maintain balance,

you have to keep moving on.

Just Friends

sometimes,
no matter how much you like one another..

there are things that keep you
from becoming together..

maybe you just have to accept the fact
that there are certain things that have happened
that will forever keep you as ---

"JUST FRIENDS"

Tough to be

it's tough when someone special
starts to ignore you.

but it's even tougher to pretend

that you don't mind...

You are what you are

Always live the life you want to live,
be the person you can be proud of.

Make decisions, make mistakes.
If you fall, its because you tried.
No regrets.

Embrace the total dark in you,
because life is too short ---
to be always cool

YOU are what you are...

TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT

Best of Hearts

perhaps,
we all give
the best of our hearts uncritically
to those who hardly
think of us in return

Move on

they say past is past,
we need to move on...
to see the future

but how can we move on
when our past
is the only thing
we ever wanted
in the future

tongue

a tongue has no bones..

but it can break a heart

Respect, Time, Need

respect those people who find
TIME for you in their busy schedule

but really love those people
who NEVER SEE their schedule
when you NEED them

Message 17: Talent

If you don't try and achieve something
you wont even know whether talent is there.

So irrespective of whether you have talent or not
If you don't invest time/effort/energy
you are not going anywhere.

Only your hard work can make your talent count

Message 16: True Love

true love never surrenders..

it might get tired,
but a little rest is enough
to love AGAIN even better...

because true love would
NEVER COMPLAIN...

it would always find a way to
UNDERSTAND PAIN...

Message 15: You'd Fall

often times we say it's over,

enough is enough
and
it's time
to let go...

Pain is all gone,
and time to move on..

but upon seeing the person you love:
one look
one smile
and you know..

again..

you'd FALL...

Message 14: No need to Ask

if someone loves you,
there is actually no need to ask
nor beg for something
you like or want to happen.

because when a person loves you,
that person would perfectly learn
about what makes you happy
even without telling what it is

Message 13: Fake and Real

fake friends smile and say.
"it's ok"
when you've done a stupid thing.

Then goes behind your back and whispers,
"but you're stupid"

real friends hits you
on the head and say
"you're stupid"
in your face,

then hugs you and whispers
"but it's ok"

see the difference?

Message 12: Never Easy

it's never easy
to let the one you love go
just because you've found someone
you think it's better

until

you realize
as you hold
your new lover's hand,
it's still
the touch of past fingers

that fits.

Message 11: Important People

what makes some people important
is not just
the happiness that you feel when you meet them
but rather the pain you feel when you miss them

Message 10: Piece of Advice

love someone whom
you don't have to be fancy
or talk in a special way,

someone you don't have to
mind your manners
or wear your best clothes and shoes,

and you don't have to
pretend you're happy
when you're feeling sad.

Message 9: Chocolates After Break-ups

why do girls eat chocolate right after breaking up?

--- because the sweetness of the chocolate
makes them forget the bitterness of breaking up..

why do boys drink beer right after breaking up?

--- because the bitterness of the beer
makes them forget the sweetness of the girl..

Message 8: What Matters

someday, we'll f0rget the pains that caused the tears & why we cried..

we would finally realize that the secret of being free is not revenge but letting things unfold in their own ways & that life is simply a blank book..

after all, what matters is not d first but d Last chapter w/c shows how well we ran d race.. so smile, Laugh, f0rgive, believe and Love over & over again.. keep dreaming, keep Loving.."

Message 7: Acceptance

Its a lie to say you've let go of d past..
Nobody let go of memories..
Each tear is an unforgettable memory..
Each smile is an undeniable mark..
Each heartbreak is an unreasonable scar..

because really..
There's no such thing as forgetting..



Only ACCEPTANCE!..

Message 6: Sometimes

sometimes we choose to believe n Lies rather than the truth

sometimes we choose to see what is fake than what s real

sometimes we pretend that we're okay though we're n0t

sometimes we choose to get hurt than to Let g0
because sometimes the Lies & pain are much easier to bear than to Lose the Love we've always wanted..

Message 5: Persona

People engage in relationships to pursue love, friendship, and inspiration.
But one true reason why, is that nobody wants his/her life to pass by unnoticed.

No matter how successful and accomplished a person may be,
it wouldn't matter if he/she had no one to share his/her experiences with.

So thank the people who love you in their own special ways,
for without them,
you are but one unknown person in this world
who lives for the sake of living..

Message 4: How Ironic

How ironic..


We always have to joke when we actually mean what we say.













and we like to sound serious when we only want to play..

Message 3: Not Nice

there are people that may say that they'll b there 4 u...

but they are really n0t there...

it's just their way of saying g0odbye in a nice way..

but it's really n0t nice...

Message 2: LIFE is a walk to remember

LIFE is a walk to remember.

Our tomorrows are determined by the steps we take each day.
The good news is,

GOD walks with us every step of the way!

Message 1: Life is about Moments

"life is not about the amount of breath you take...





.. . .It's about the moments that takes your breath away."

Friendship

FRIENDSHIP is
not like

BASKETBALL,
6 fouls & your out!

it runs like
MARATHON

won by endurance
& determination

NOT SPEED

...see you at the finish line..

Accept it

don't try to understand everything...

because sometimes it is not
meant to understand

but rather..

to accept

No Need

when i start to feel not important to a person,

i take the initiative to stay away..

so when someone feels that i'm quite far,

it doesn't mean that i intentionally left the person

maybe..

i just felt that the person

doesn't need me at all...

See the Difference

INFATUATION is...

"i can't wait to have you. i can't risk to lose you."


LOVE is...

"i know you are there, we don't have to rush things."



.think about it.

How to love

how to love?

FOR GUYS:

love your girl as if she's only 16.
no longer a girl but not yet a woman.
love her with all your heart,
set rules & never break her heart.


FOR GIRLS:

love your boy as if he's only 8.
let him play with his toys
& go out with his playmates.
don't worry, for at the end of the day,
he'll still come home to you.

Measure Sadness

how would you measure one's sadness?

it's not the amount
of tears you've shed..

...but

on the many times you fake a smile..

Laugh and Cry

i always knew
that i would look back
and laugh at the times i cried...

but

i never thought
i would cry
at the times
i once laughed..

habit of Flirting

FLIRTING is a habit for those who are single,
it's their way of saying "i'm free"

but for those who are committed,
it's their way of saying "i'm bored"

If, Then, We

if we dwell on the past too much,
we pass up the chance to change and grow.

whether we like it or not,
it takes an extra effort to accommodate changes in our lives.

we have to make choices..
we have to make space..
we have to let things go..

and definitely,

we have to let things change..

Hard to Miss Someone

it's really hard to miss someone..

but it's even harder
when all you can do
is
to divert your attention in other things
until the feeling is gone...

Life Lessons

one of the lessons
life taught me
these past few days
is
to let go
of the people
who cannot treat you right.

don't bother
to waste time
pleasing them.

it's easier to let go
than to be taken for granted.

I wish to close my eyes

you can close your eyes from the things you don't want to see..

but you can never close your heart from the things you don't want to feel

How Ironic

whenever we try to say something serious,
we look like we're joking..

but when we try to tell some jokes,
we often appear serious..

ironic isn't it?

Truths to Know

sometimes,

it's not best to ask if he/she likes you or not.

because if you didn't get the answers you are looking for,
you'll be left hanging on a string...

...it might not be simple but if he/she really like you,
he/she will take all the courage to make you feel that you're special,

words or actions alone do not always pose a truth to it.
what is obvious may not always be the truth.

If Mistakes can be Tolerate

if there's a mistake in my whole life that i can tolerate...

...it's when i have loved someone though i knew it wouldn't be appreciated

Learning

things happen because we choose to,
there may be regrets..

but blaming is not an option.
We are where we are coz we brought ourselves there.

we get happy,
we get sad..

but most importantly...

WE LEARN...

Life: An Undying Cycle

Life is an undying cycle.

it is a battle of survival...

if u fall,
then stand up.

it you keep on complaining about the miseries of your life,
nothing will happen.

God doesn't throw stones that we cannot catch..

Trust Him and everything would turn out right

Memories

sometimes, we get hurt so much that each time we see the person who gave us pain
we see a flashback of what happened in our past..

every tear,
every heartbreak that it gave us..

and each time we do,
all we could remember is how we
loved each other that much..
too much that it didn't work..

because sometimes,
even if everything felt so perfect..

It was just meant to teach us..
not to stay forever..