Friendship

FRIENDSHIP is
not like

BASKETBALL,
6 fouls & your out!

it runs like
MARATHON

won by endurance
& determination

NOT SPEED

...see you at the finish line..

Accept it

don't try to understand everything...

because sometimes it is not
meant to understand

but rather..

to accept

No Need

when i start to feel not important to a person,

i take the initiative to stay away..

so when someone feels that i'm quite far,

it doesn't mean that i intentionally left the person

maybe..

i just felt that the person

doesn't need me at all...

See the Difference

INFATUATION is...

"i can't wait to have you. i can't risk to lose you."


LOVE is...

"i know you are there, we don't have to rush things."



.think about it.

How to love

how to love?

FOR GUYS:

love your girl as if she's only 16.
no longer a girl but not yet a woman.
love her with all your heart,
set rules & never break her heart.


FOR GIRLS:

love your boy as if he's only 8.
let him play with his toys
& go out with his playmates.
don't worry, for at the end of the day,
he'll still come home to you.

Measure Sadness

how would you measure one's sadness?

it's not the amount
of tears you've shed..

...but

on the many times you fake a smile..

Laugh and Cry

i always knew
that i would look back
and laugh at the times i cried...

but

i never thought
i would cry
at the times
i once laughed..

habit of Flirting

FLIRTING is a habit for those who are single,
it's their way of saying "i'm free"

but for those who are committed,
it's their way of saying "i'm bored"

If, Then, We

if we dwell on the past too much,
we pass up the chance to change and grow.

whether we like it or not,
it takes an extra effort to accommodate changes in our lives.

we have to make choices..
we have to make space..
we have to let things go..

and definitely,

we have to let things change..

Hard to Miss Someone

it's really hard to miss someone..

but it's even harder
when all you can do
is
to divert your attention in other things
until the feeling is gone...

Life Lessons

one of the lessons
life taught me
these past few days
is
to let go
of the people
who cannot treat you right.

don't bother
to waste time
pleasing them.

it's easier to let go
than to be taken for granted.

I wish to close my eyes

you can close your eyes from the things you don't want to see..

but you can never close your heart from the things you don't want to feel

How Ironic

whenever we try to say something serious,
we look like we're joking..

but when we try to tell some jokes,
we often appear serious..

ironic isn't it?

Truths to Know

sometimes,

it's not best to ask if he/she likes you or not.

because if you didn't get the answers you are looking for,
you'll be left hanging on a string...

...it might not be simple but if he/she really like you,
he/she will take all the courage to make you feel that you're special,

words or actions alone do not always pose a truth to it.
what is obvious may not always be the truth.

If Mistakes can be Tolerate

if there's a mistake in my whole life that i can tolerate...

...it's when i have loved someone though i knew it wouldn't be appreciated

Learning

things happen because we choose to,
there may be regrets..

but blaming is not an option.
We are where we are coz we brought ourselves there.

we get happy,
we get sad..

but most importantly...

WE LEARN...

Life: An Undying Cycle

Life is an undying cycle.

it is a battle of survival...

if u fall,
then stand up.

it you keep on complaining about the miseries of your life,
nothing will happen.

God doesn't throw stones that we cannot catch..

Trust Him and everything would turn out right

Memories

sometimes, we get hurt so much that each time we see the person who gave us pain
we see a flashback of what happened in our past..

every tear,
every heartbreak that it gave us..

and each time we do,
all we could remember is how we
loved each other that much..
too much that it didn't work..

because sometimes,
even if everything felt so perfect..

It was just meant to teach us..
not to stay forever..

Replacement

if he acts like you're not worth his time,
maybe you're not what he wants..

you're just a replacement for what he cant have...

Seems to be

Why is it that sometimes,

the world seems to be so empty..
even if only one person is missing?

Unconsciousness

Unconsciously..
we choose how we see people :

when we like someone,

we are tolerant.

when we don't,

we focus on their faults.

it's not other people's true personality
that determines how we feel about them...

it's our ATTITUDE ---

the human tendency to pre-judge

Existence

when you think you're not happy with your life,
always think
that you make someone happy

because you EXIST

Friends CHANGE

Friends CHANGE.

usually, they change into everything they said they WOULDN'T BE.

You just have to accept it,
and REALIZE everyone changes in their lifetime.

The real CHALLENGE is to STAY friends
and prove to everyone that friendship
can last through ANYTHING

Face Masks

usually...

a person with more smile,

is the same person with more heartaches

A Walk with Me

i prefer not to look back to people who's no longer walking with me...

and when somebody asks why did i let them leave..

i just answered:

life is a long journey,
let's see who will be walking with me
til the end of my story

Love

when you find faults
from someone you love,

hold on!

don't judge nor doubt
but

trust and understand

that someone is doing his/her best
to love you more

remember,

love has nothing to explain

Eyes to Reality

you can close your eyes from the things you don't want to see...

but you can never close your heart from the things you don't want to feel...