Gift Of Grace

for every heart that listens,
there is a voice that speaks.

there is a door that opens,
to every soul that seeks.

to those who ask,
the promise is that they shall receive.

and the gift of grace is given
to all those who believe...

When

when a song ends,
you could just repeat it
every time you like.

when the movie ends,
you can just wait after trailers
to start again.

when the rain ends,
sure it'll come back soon.

but when special moments have gone,
you don't even know if you can rewind it,
repeat it,
or hope for it
to happen again.

so enjoy every second of it
while it lasts...

Sad Reality

here's a sad reality:

you can forget a person
you love so much
no matter how much
you try to do it.

it's impossible
unless

you learn
to love somebody else

Blessings

you're blessed if you have someone ---

who speaks the truth
when others tell you
what you want to hear.

who thinks you're great
but doesn't always think you're right.

who respects you need to be alone
yet understands that you fear being lonely.

who's willing to share your highest hopes,
your biggest dreams,
or the smallest corner of your world.

who waits when
you run ahead or lag behind.

who stands with
and outstretched hand
each time you fall.

someone who will never turn back
and give up on you
despite all

Greatest Torture

probably,
the greatest torture
you could ever do
to your heart,

is to let
somebody go...

at the time
you love
that person most.

Friendship

Boys use the word
"friendship" to start love.

Girls use the word
"friendship" to end love.

same word but different attitude

Having Mistakes

having mistakes doesn't mean
that you're a bad person...

it's a part of life.

you don't have to focus
on the wrong things you've done...

because what's important is
you've realized what is right

Ifs

if you love what you're doing,
you'll never get bored.


same with...


if you still love that person,
you'll never get tired.

Misplaced Things

why do misplaced things appear when not needed?

and unseen when you wanted it the most?

simply because...

you aren't aware of its value
unless you're about to make use of it

It's Proper When...

Letting go is proper when
you have already shown how much
you loved a person
and still nothing happened...

it is proper when you know in
your heart that you did your part
& even half of his part but all
remained unreciprocated.

letting go is not really giving up
on how you feel about a certain person,
it is sometimes just choosing
to love that person from afar.

just from afar,
to save yourself
from further hurts,

.AND TO SAVE YOUR VERY OWN WORTH.

Courage

if it takes great courage to
stand & fight for something

sometimes it takes even greater courage
to just walk away and
leave things behind.

Forever

Forever is a promise,
and you can't afford to lie

Take Chance

Learn how to take the chance,
and know when to take it,
and why take it

Miracle Friend

having a million of friends is not a miracle..

the miracle is,

to have a friend
who will stand by you,

when million are against you..

It's all in the Mind'

do you know that the heart has no pain receptors?

so the next time someone breaks your heart,
move on.

the pain you feel is just an illusion..

a temporary psychological disturbacnce that you have to overcome..

in short...

IT''S ALL IN THE MIND

Often Mistakes

people often make a mistake of loving the wrong person
and letting go of the right one

if you happen to be one of them,
don't be sad

because love will always lead you
back to the person rightfully meant for you

Paradox In Life

everybody wants to live a long life,
but nobody wants to get old.

everybody wants to go to heaven,
but nobody wants to die.

and nobody seems to realize
that on our life's journey no one has ever reached the finish line

Love One

Love 1, NOT 2.
but love the one who loves you too.

Love 3, NOT 4.
but love the one who loves you more.

Love NOT 5, NOT 6.
but love the one who really sticks.

Love NOT 7, NOT 8.
but love the one who's willing to wait.

Love NOT 9, NOT 10.
but love the one who will love you until the end.

Bitterness

"bitterness"

doesn't mean you hate falling in love..

it's just being wise and careful
so that your heart won't be used and torn apart again

Let Go

sometimes,
it is easier to let the one you love go..

not knowing the real reason,

because it would surely hurt more,
when you find it unreasonable.

Importance if Things

the importance of something is seen when it's done

the worth of someone is realized when they're gone

because it would always be a mystery
that we realize the essence when it's already a memory...

Part of the Reason

i think part of the reasons why we hold onto something so tight for so long
is because we fear that something so great will never happen twice

Most people Believe

most people believe
that "i love you"
is the best thing you can say to anybody...

i have learned that "i love you too"
has a greater impact on the human heart.

anybody can get an 'i love you'

but fewer get an 'i love you too'

Unwanted Apologies

it hurts to know
that the people who hurt you
never realize the gravity of what they've done...


...and when they apologize,
they don't even know what they're being sorry for...

Never be Assured

never be assured
that love is enough
to make someone stay
or come back to you..

because when the pain strikes the heart,
love fades no matter how great it was..

Yet You still choose

it's funny how other people are willing to do lots of brave things just for you...

...yet you still choose someone
who can't even offer you half of what other could.

Your Worth

even if someone is too numb to feel you..

or too insensitive to notice you..

you still choose to stay..

because beyond what others see in that person..

you feel that tiny chance that maybe..

if you hold a little bit tighter,
he/she will learn to appreciate your worth..

Sound and Silence

the loud voice of a man
really shocks and threatens a woman..

but..

the silence of a woman
tremendously shakes the consciousness of a man

Learning Things

everyone has his/her own way of learning things

Afraid to Fall

We are afraid to fall in love for we are afraid to get hurt.

but when we finally fall,
do you know what's the first thing we're afraid of?

it's losing "THE ONE"
we fell in love with...

Which Road?

destiny is like the crossroads..

can't be changed..
and is out of our control..

but God gives us the freewill to choose which path are we going to take..

this is the challenge of life..
to make CHOICES...

which road will you take?
be careful for there;s no turning back

Words to Live by

Words to Live by:

just say what you mean, and mean what you say.
don't expect someone to read your mind
and don't play with heads or hearts.

don't tell half-truths
and expect trust when the full truth comes out.

half-truths are no better than lies.

don't be cold to someone you care about,
INDIFFERENCE hurts more than ANGRY WORDS.
they say actions speak louder than words
but sometimes,
it's better to have both

Words

a GOODBYE can hurt..

but not as much as an "i Love you" that can't be proven

Feelings

Never ever play with other people's feelings..

the world holds millions of things you can play with..

a person's emotion is definitely not one of them.

Life's Road

our life is sometimes like a rough road to walk on,
where everything seems wrong and hard..

but let's not give up and lose hope,

let's go on and persevere.

when we think we're alone,
we'll find God walking alongside us.

He'll surely not leave us.

Just One

a thousand pairs of eyes may speak of admiration over you
and it can make you smile or be flattered..

but at the end of the day,

no matter how many people express such adoration,

you'd still want to be with the person
who doesn't only see you as someone to be praised,

but someone who despite your flaws,
still embraces and kisses you,

and even shares your laughter and pains..

6 billion people and sometimes,
all you need is just ONE.

Friends

sometimes,
friends are separated by priorities,
by distance,
by differences
and pride..

but no matter how far and different people are,
there's always a friend you can lean on whom you have known from the very start

Greatest Companion

keep in mind that GOD is your greatest companion
because no matter how imperfect you are,
and no matter what happens in your life,

GOD will still be there to give you the greatest love you've always wanted.

Guy and Girl Facts

Facts:

Girls have innumerable crushes
but their hearts only belong to ONE guy

and...

Guys may be flirting all day but before they go to sleep,
they always think about the girl they truly care about

Being Single

BEFORE:

being single means that nobody wants you

NOW:

it means you're cute, smart and you're just taking you're time
deciding how you want your life to be..

...and who you want to spend it with...

Quitter

being a QUITTER doesn't mean you're a LOSER,

every time you quit doesn't mean you're GIVING UP...

it only means
that you have to let go
of what you think is
ENOUGH

Heroism in Love

sometimes,
the heroism in love is not only seen in the way you fought for it..

but the way you surrendered it even though it was suppose to be perfect

Benefits of Friendship

BENEFITS OF FRIENDSHIP

you can have general meetings about
other people's clumsiness and bloopers;

you can share secrets that
for unknown reasons you can't keep on your own;

you'll have
easy, ready and accessible loan services;

you don't have to pretend you're a cow
because they know you're a pig;

you can cry
mouth open and tongue out with them;

you can render
"pa-text" service;

you can share a meal
for the price of one;

if you fall, they'll laugh at you
but will lend you a hand and laugh at you again..

that's FRIENDSHIP

Through Pain

sometimes,

we must be hurt in order to grow.

we must fail in order to know.

we must lose in order to gain.

why?

because some lessons are best learned through pain

Be Satisfied

to love someone doesn't mean to commit with that person...

sometimes, you just have to be satisfied
with whatever connection you have
with that special someone

Derived Happiness

Happiness can be derived
only when you can make other people happy
despite of your own loneliness, sacrifices and self-denial

Tears

perhaps our eyes need to be washed by our tears once in a while...

so that we can see life with a clearer view again..

Loving Forever

you can never make someone love you forever..

all you can do is be someone who can be loved..

and the rest is up to the person to realize your worth..

Cheating and Faithfulness Borderline

there's always a possibility that a person in a relationship can get attracted to another,

it's human nature.

it's not wrong.

but that's why you are in a commitment,

you discipline yourself,

you may get attracted to numerous prospects
and it's ok,
as long as you don't nurse the feeling and want to do something about it...

borderline between cheating and faithfulness,

recognize the reality that you already have the person that can give you more than what you get for the cheap thrills of attraction

Sorry

do you know what's wrong when a loved one says "sorry"?

--> it gives him/her the wrong idea that any mistake can be solved by a single word. and they'll commit the same mistake all over again.

but

do you know what right when a friend says he/she is "sorry"?

--> it connotes that a single word may not solve everything but is an effort to always make up with you whose really worth keeping

Happiness

Happiness Achieved is MATERIALISTIC

Happiness felt is DIVINE

Personality for Love?

Don't sacrifice your personality for LOVE

Successful Relations

Understanding and Good Communication
is the key to every successful relationship

Dreams

Dreams are the bridge between the physical world,
accessible through our senses and sacred realm,
built at subconsciousness

Love is...

Love is the most powerful of all,
can be your weapon to achieve your happiness
or can also ruin you totally

Consequence of Choices

Nobody ever did, or ever will, escape the consequences of his choices

Forever isn't Enough

never love someone you know you can't have for a long time,
and never wish forever,
when you know --- forever is not enough to make that person love you

Strongest feeling

Love is the strongest feeling that exists on earth

Expecting or Assuming

they say EXPECTING is one way of hurting yourself,
but,

what if you have the reason to EXPECT?

"EXPECTING doesn't hurt you,
ASSUMING does"

Imagination

there is no limitation for IMAGINATION

Hardest to Compete With

In love,
who is the hardest to compete with?

3rd party?

flirts?

good lookings?

hearthrobs?

NO.

but the love BEFORE you

Do it with Heart

Whatever you do,
do it with your heart

Letting Go

in some relations,

"Letting Go"

is the most difficult
and the last thing you desire

Memory

Sometimes
it takes just a moment
to create a memory of a lifetime

Stress

Stress is as much physical as psychological

Life and Dreams

a life without dreams is harder to live

Love can Wait

there is a saying "love can wait"



....people just can't

Suppression?

it's really hard to miss someone,
but it's even harder when all you can do is...

to divert your attention in other things...

until the feeling is gone...

Someone Special

when you love someone and admit it,
there's no turning back.

it's a line that will forever stay embedded deep within your heart.
because once you loved that someone,
it doesn't fade away.

even if you wish to prevent it,
deep inside ---

you know he or she will always be SPECIAL