Make some room in your heart

Growing up, we meet people everyday who may or may have not any significance in our lives. Influence from people around us helps us  understand the true meaning of life itself but sometimes, the problem is that most people get blinded by their emotions that they fail to move forward.

I have known people who mingle with others for the sake of finding that right connection. ultimately, the idea boils down to finding your life partner to grow old with. The notion of being single is sometimes overrated to a point of being frowned upon. I have observed through the years of my life that finding someone who you can be intimate with is one of the hardest challenge in life.

When a person is struck by Cupid's arrow, heightened emotions are being felt that any person would do everything to keep that great feeling. We all love in many forms that people end up being blinded by their love to another. This idea of becoming blind because of love happens when someone truly opens their heart for somebody else. To share their entire world, giving everything that they can even go as far as trying to obtain things beyond their limits. Often, we would hear the words "That is love". But is it truly?

In my opinion, love is one of the greatest feeling in this world but when you love, make sure you have reservations for yourself. It's not that it's wrong to give you heart to somebody else but until you are sure that they are truly the right person for you, do not forget to also love yourself. We may not know when we can be hurt to a point where you would question your own existence and even why you loved another in the first place. There is nothing wrong with you when it comes to loving another. What's wrong is that when a person gives everything in one go, it may end up to the situation that the other person won't be able to handle it, or worse, grow tired of it.

So the next time, you fall in love, remember to hold back yourself a little. Make room for you to love not just another person but also yourself.