You are not an option

 Never let yourself be an option for somebody else. Relationships should be built through trust and faith regardless of your beliefs.

I applaud that you have loved a person truly and openly that you gave everything that you can. But, know that there are better things for you out there and the only person holding you back on attaining those positive things is yourself.

I have this friend who recently broke up with his girlfriend but after three months of their break-up, she wanted him back. The answer was so obvious when he asked me what he should do. I told him, you have lived without her for the past three months and you've been trying your best to get yourself back together so that you can move forward with your life. Do not go back to that person. Harsh as it may sound, there is a reason why they are called an "ex". They are those people who came to your life but the relationship didn't work out because there were a lot of things that lacked in your attachment. Do not call it a mistake but rather a lesson that you have to be thankful for because through our lives, we would get to know ourselves better through experiences. As they say, there is always a light at the end of the tunnel. So try your best to look at the bright side of things and with faith and belief in yourself, you will be surprised of the better person you will become :]

Only the Inevitable

There is a saying that goes: "There is no such thing as a coincidence, only the inevitable."
I do believe that there isn't such a thing. I'd rather believe in what is currently happening.

We meet people depending on different circumstances. Some are there to stay as friends, some more than friends, while others are just people you meet in the journey of your life.

When you meet a new person, the most common thing that happens is you introduce yourselves until you find something in common to start a conversation going. Rarely does it happen to meet someone whom you feel like you know for the longest time.

My heart is crying

Caring for other people besides yourself is natural. Other than family, sometimes it gets complicated. There are many times in our lives that we find ourselves falling for a person, only to find out that they are in a relationship with somebody else and did not even bother to mention it. This is reality and the truth sometimes hits you hard. No matter how strong of a person you are, you can hear your heart crying in situations like this.

I met this guy a couple of months back and we clicked immediately. We had almost everything in common, be it food, hobbies, or activities, even music. It is rare to find someone like this. The more we spent time together, the more I found myself falling for him but I never mentioned it. Why? because our body language shows we are open to one another and that's where it gets crazy. However, it came to a point that things lately have been really great but we never moved forward on anything nor discussed it. To make matters worse, I accidentally found out that he is seeing someone else that his parents fixed for him. He isn't interested in that girl but they are in a relationship and his friend couldn't understand why he bothers to be with her in the first place. As complicated as this is, it tore my heart when I heard of it. 

Just when you thought that things are going pretty well, you end up slamming onto a wall. Before this gets further, I must back off and vent these feelings onto something else to help myself move on. We are still friends and he is just as confusing as ever on how he treats me apart from other people. But, that's how complicated situations are. You may find yourself stumble over obstacles but try getting back up and continue to move forward. Happiness can be found when you let yourself free and accept the truth no matter how hurtful it may get. It could be that you may have found the person you'd want to spend your life with but the timing is wrong. Don't worry, believe that there is someone or something out there better for you. Just pray and wait. Don't let yourself fall into depression over a situation you can come out strong with acceptance.